My husband, Brian, and I are currently going through our very first calamity: the torrential rains in the Boston area have managed to flood the lower floor of our modest abode.
I just have a couple of tips for anyone who wants them:
- Crisis situations bring out the best in some couples, and the worst in others. I hope you are in the first group, like Brian and I are so fortunate to be.
- When crisis first strikes, kiss your significant other right away. It might be the last time you see them in a good mood for a while.
- Be a team. If they stayed up all night taking care of the problem while they let you sleep in ignorant bliss, then don’t complain about picking up the slack the next day during the day while they sleep.
- They are going through this as much as you are. Be supportive of one another. If they snap at you, cut them a break; this is not a usual situation and they are as frustrated as you are. They will forgive you quickly for snapping at them as well. Give and take.
- Always remember that this, too, shall pass. Do you want to be remembered as supportive during a crisis, or as whiny/bitchy/selfish? You are a strong person, let that part of you shine.
That’s all I got. Back to checking towels and HVAC water levels.
ina